Dating Games: Why did they stop texting? @Susan Winter

Nathan writes, “Recently I went on a first date with a girl, and it went great. Connection and chemistry was there. I got every indication that she liked me and wanted to see me again. I was excited! But soon she stopped texting back. I know she has a busy life, but my experience tells me this indicates lack of interest. I’m confused and feel hurt. How can I make sense of this and stop obsessing?”

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Relationship Expert and Bestselling Author (Allowing Magnificence, Older Women/Younger Men, and Breakup Triage) Susan Winter, writes, speaks and coaches on evolutionary forms of loving partnership and higher thinking. Media credits include: THE OPRAH SHOW, THE TODAY SHOW, GOOD MORNING AMERICA, ABC EVENING NEWS, THE LIST, CNN HEADLINE NEWS, BBC, COSMO, HARPERS BAZAAR, FORTUNE, FORBES, BUSINESS INSIDER, PEOPLE MAGAZINE, NEW YORK MAGAZINE, THE LONDON TIMES, MUMBAI MIRROR, IRISH TIMES, THE TIMES OF INDIA, and THE NEW YORK TIMES. In radio, Susan is a frequent guest on NPR, ABC, BBC, and CBS NEWS RADIO. Public speaking includes keynotes at the WORLD ECONOMIC FORUM, THE INTERNATIONAL MENTAL HEALTH FESTIVAL, and the CORE CLUB NYC. Her Podcast, ‘The Susan Winter Show,’ can be heard on Spotify, iHeart Radio, and Apple Music.